“I Didn’t Think About the Consequences”
Several teenagers went to the local bridge at Moulton Falls, just outside their hometown of Vancouver, Washington. Some teenagers choose to jump off the 60 foot bridge into the water below. On this August day, several of her friends had already jumped. Jordan Holgerson stood on the exposed edge of the bridge. She was caught between wanting to jump and being too afraid to jump. One of her best friends, Taylor Smith, was standing behind her “egging” her on. “Jordan, I’m going to push you…Go…Go…Go…3, 2, 1…Stop Talking!” And then Taylor shoved Jordan. Jordan was not expecting this shove. Jordan’s body was headed toward the water, vertically. She slammed into the water. She broke 5 ribs and punctured both lungs. She was bruised from head to toe. She couldn’t breathe or move. Her friends immediately pulled her out of the water. Jordan survived.
Joe’s Perspective: This is a tough video to watch, but so necessary for teenagers to view. It’s really a metaphor for so many things that will happen in your life. Taylor was interviewed after the incident, and she said, “I didn’t think about the consequences.” It appears that Taylor simply new what was best for her friend. She knew Jordan was just being a wimp. She just grew impatient and took matters into her own hands. After all, it’s all in good fun, right?
We all need to consider the consequences before-hand. Granted, we are not all standing 60 feet over water, but the consequences can be just as severe. When driving down a two lane road, friends yell, “Pass him, come one pass him.” At a party, a friend might encourage you to try a drug. At school, friends might encourage you to provide them with answers to a test you just completed. Someday when you are drinking age, a friend might tell you it’s okay to drive after consuming several drinks. I can remember stories of people dying on their 21st birthday because their “friends” line up 21 shots of alcohol.
Growing up is hard enough. You will make poor choices from time to time. You can’t avoid these errors in judgment. It’s part of growing up and it’s a part of life. However, my message to you is, you get to decide. You make the decision. You are the one in charge of you. You don’t need friends who “egg” you on or encourage you to make poor choices. And, you certainly don’t need friends who take the decisions out of your hands. True friends look out for you and keep you out of harms way. Please be a good friend and always think about the consequences. End of lesson.
Your Turn: After watching this video and hearing this story, what life lesson(s) do you take away?
I think you should never pressure someone into doing something that can hurt them.
Don’t push peoples mental ability or physical ability.
Watching this video a scary cause these are people close o my age and they act without honking which is very scary this will always make me think before doing something.
If she didn’t want to jump her friend should have never pushed her off. That looked like a far jump. I would have not jumped either. She should have thought before doing.
Watching this video is frighting because we don’t usually think about what could happen in the future we just think about the present.
I think that before we do something that really your friends want you to do we should think is this going to hurt me or no. Then decide if you should do it
Never push someone to do something they don’t want to do. Treat others they way yo want to be treated.
I think that you should push people out of their comfort zones but not take things this far to where you could be responsible for getting someone hurt… this is a great example of taking it too far
this video was very scary to watch. watching someone pretty close to my age, get so badly injured was just sad. the life lesson I learned was that before you do anything, you should stop and think. think “is this going to affect me in the future?” think “ is this going to harm me in anyway shape or form?” but the other thing I learned is that you shouldn’t do something you don’t want to do, even if your friend is pressuring you. DON’T FALL INTO PEER PRESSURE
Do not peer pressure someone for your own good or for your own humor. This young teen had life threatening injuries because her friends tried to push her into something she didn’t need to do.
The life lesson that I take away from this is to never pressure someone into doing something that they are not comfortable doing.
I feel like the friends shouldn’t have pushed her but its also her fault. Its her fault because they didn’t force her to climb over the bridge, she climbed over the bridge because she was going to do it. Its just the friends fault cause they pushed her out of her will.
I agree with all he said so i need to start thing of better thanks to do and i need to stop be friends with the people i hang out with.
If all your friends jumped to their death, would you jump too? I agree with all your responses. Better yet, you should not pressure them to do stuff that their totally against.
make better chosise
i think this girl is crazy never do this